Sunday 23 November 2014

* BEST FRIENDS * ^_^ <3 

We all know how important friends are. There are friends we go to lunch with, friends we share things with and friends to play out door activities with. But despite having a pal for every occasion, having a best friend is a huge bonus in life.

HERE ARE SOME EXAMPLES WHY BEST FRIEND IS VERY IMPORTANT TO US ......

Good friends help us to develop our self-esteem. Having someone in our life who thinks we are important -- someone who wants our opinion on things and who values our company -- makes us feel wanted, boosting self-esteem.Honest opinions 

1. Comfort: 
A best friend is someone you don't have to fill in the blanks with. They already know all the inner details of your life. It's like picking up a book and knowing exactly where you left off . You can cut to the chase and get right to the meat of any discussion because all the background information has already been stored away.

2. Connectedness:
One of our most basic fears is being alone. Whether your best friend is around the corner or in another time zone, just knowing she is there provides comfort. So if you find yourself feeling isolated, whether physically or emotionally, get connected to your closest friend through email , Face book , Whatsapp and so forth , which enables fast communications
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3. Honest opinions:
Best friends will also be totally honest with us. They know you well and are able to tell it like it is. So thank your best friend. She's got your best interests at heart.

4. A fresh perspective
We are all individuals, with different experiences and opinions, but having a best friend to share things with can help us learn new things about ourselves. The things they share with us can open our eyes to new ideas and ways to think about the world around us. By bringing a fresh perspective to a problem, things have a better chance of changing. Best friends can help us find those "A-ha!" moments that lead to solving problems. 


5. Life lessons
When a close friend does something you disagree with, you're more likely to confront them and discuss what has upset you than if it's a person you aren't as familiar with. Getting through this with a close friend helps to prepare you for other times in life where you will need to face a difficult situation. Now you have this skill in your life skills bag.


6. Loyalty
Loyalty means never having to worry about someone spilling your secrets or talking about you behind your back. Best friends equally built-in trust. Most likely, you've spent years building your bond, which just gets stronger over time. A loyal friend will be on your team no matter what. They will be honest with you, and would not betray you.

9. Personal growth

Having a best friend means sharing experiences. Sometimes, when we get stuck in our own routines, it's nice to hear about what other people are doing. Often we can live vicariously through our close friends and learn about things we may not have thought about doing.

10. The best sounding board
One of the greatest things about having a best friend is being able to share -- everything. They are the ones to whom we tell things we wouldn't dream of telling anyone else -- our greatest fears and biggest mistakes. Being able to share these intimate details about our lives helps to normalize whatever has happened. Fear or discomfort is diffused when you share it with a friend.



 THAT'S ALL ..... THX ^_^ I LOVE MY BEST FRIENDS ...... <3